Speaker: Sia Kim Pu — Ready For Love
We need to know how to love each other the way God loves us. If we don’t know how to love, we’ll struggle.
Just like the phone filters we use make our skin look smooth and flawless, it’s different from reality. In the same way, there’s a difference between social media love and real love. People are obsessed with love but also confused about it.
• 1 Corinthians 13:4–7
If we’re not patient in love, we’ll fight — and if we’re not patient, it’s not love.
If you’re not kind, you’re using someone like a tool. Love honors people. That’s real love.
Love is sacrifice. Jesus sacrificed Himself for us. Love isn’t just emotions — it takes action.
When you truly love someone, you’re not easily angered.
“Keeps no record of wrongs” — some people keep records like it’s sin, remembering every wrongdoing, but that’s not love.
• Song of Songs 1:2–3
God created attraction. Love itself isn’t wrong — that’s why Adam and Eve were created. But attraction becomes wrong when it turns into lust. God wanted attraction rooted in love, not lust.
God created sex for covenant — something holy. Are you married in front of God and people?
When God wanted to do something big, He used marriage, just like Jesus.
He used the Virgin Mary to show that it was from God.
Keeping and honoring your virginity is a blessing.
God also created emotional attraction.
Wine represents peace and joy. When you experience the true love of God, you forget everything — you feel His presence.
When you receive God’s love, emotions come with it. There’s a real emotional connection.
God didn’t create relationships to stay on a surface level. Attraction can turn into lust if we’re not careful, but God designed relationships to bring joy — love, understanding, respect, boundaries, carrying each other’s hardships, and supporting one another spiritually.
If someone pulls you away from church, that should be a concern.
God created love. He wants us to love.
And the love of God is always modern — it never expires.